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刚结婚后才发现老公变了,和婚前不一样,比如对待服务员差不体谅不...

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Hi Chan Fong,
刚结婚后才发现老公变了,和婚前不一样,比如对待服务员差不体谅不尊重甚至是骂,完全和婚前不一样了,骂服务员那些他也觉得活该,很应该骂,我也傻眼,因为只是一点小事而已,对我来说根本不需要开口骂人,可以好好说就解决了,还以为自己做得很对完全没内疚或自我检讨。还有以前就算我们吵架都是两人事,现在有事就大庭广众骂我,我也吓到。每次要好好沟通时一直拿说赚钱压力来压我,或者说做老婆的就是要体谅老公,其实他赚钱忙,我从来没去打扰或是限制他,工作方面我根本没插手,也没要求大富大贵的生活,家务我做到完家里大小事我做,不让他操心,除了丢垃圾他做一样而已,这样还不体谅?我也做自己工作,其实commitment那些本来是我自己负担,婚后他坚决要帮我负担全部,我开始拒绝的,可是他坚持一定要,所以我没办法就听他的也想数目也不大不会影响到怎样。婚后他也常拒绝沟通因为他认为他对,每次要好好沟通只会说:行,你要赢我让你赢!听了谁不气?说只有我在小题大做,是他在拒绝沟通,所以我现在都没有和他说话了,也觉得没救了,跟着这样的人以后要怎样一起继续生活,还有一点,家婆也不是什么好人嘴巴很贱那种和妒忌心强,他们总是背后说媳妇们坏话,眼红妒忌,连我和老公自己买的新房他们也来插手强迫我做他们想要的风格装修,我客气好好说了四遍不要紧我要做我要的,最后她脸黑背后说坏话不停,这我也算了,那时我觉得家婆不好不要紧有老公陪着我帮我已经很好了,可是现在我有点后悔事情怎么变成这样,也有想离婚念头,反正就是婚后很不开心,他变成了我最讨厌的态度性格,我知道他以为我们结婚了我就不会离开他,但是他错了,我不能忍受的话到最后我还是会走,没有他我也可以过得很好甚至更好,我也是个独立的人,也想过如果真离婚了会是我人生中的污点,我想多听男子的意见。

Cheryl 92


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